In 2014, we didn't know yet who would be running for president in the 2016 election, the Guardians of the Galaxy  had just arrived, Pharrell Williams was " Happy ", and the Ebola virus outbreak was reaching epidemic proportions in West Africa. Also, in 2014 we posted a 3-part article on Starting the Divorce Process , and despite how much has changed since 2014, divorce is pretty much the same.  You have a choice when getting divorced; you decide how much professional help you want, how much control you want to have over the outcome, and how much time and energy you have to devote to your divorce. What is different in 2020 is the continued growth in popularity of divorce process options that focus on family over fighting.  More professionals are trained every year in collaborative law and mediation.  Conscious uncoupling has become a buzzword for a better divorce. More and more resources are showing up to help explain the options in divorce in more understand...