Many individuals come to our office having gone through mediation with their soon-to-be-ex-spouse, asking us to review the separation agreement that they have negotiated. Whether we ultimately advise a client to sign a proposed agreement or not depends on the contents of the document and the individual's particular set of circumstances, 1. Has the marriage been irretrievably broken down with NO CHANCE OF RECONCILIATION ? 2. Does the Agreement completely resolve all issues relevant to the marriage in a fair and reasonable manner? 3. Is this an agreement that you can live with? In the end, it is not our life but yours, and the divorce agreement will govern some important aspects of your life in the future, especially when there are children involved. Being able to "live with a divorce agreement" means not only being happy or satisfied with it, but also being able to perform any of the agreement's obligations. If the agreement is not something that you can li...